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DEAR BLOG: 2023
Monday, September 27, 2021
Dear BLOG: A perfect day for some thoughts
Since I have some time to actually “hae” during working hour, I shall write something.
How should I begin this…
Heard a song this morning while having my toilet break...
“ohh if I showed you my flaws, would you run away, or would you
stay?”
Yes, if I showed you my flaws, would you run away or would
you stay? This is what everyone was afraid of, or maybe that’s was just me. This
was what I frequently asked myself last time, and just think about it, what am I
afraid of? I am afraid of losing friendship? Or I am afraid of people don’t like
me? But that’s wasn’t any that sync to what I am doing right now. I don’t often
contact people that I don’t often interact with or contact me. There is one
thing that I realized I changed friend often and I do not have any long-term
friendship that stick to the end, probably only one or two?
I changed friend from kindergarten to primary to work life
and I used to envy people who still has their childhood friend stick around. I wish
to have it, but I don’t because I myself contact none of them. I believe we will be meeting each other again next time.
天下没有不散的宴席,、
但每一次的分离,
也都是为了下一次的重逢
So back to the topic of flaws…
I used to be this person that do not like people commenting
on my flaws and I will get frustrated/anxious whenever someone easily point out
my flaws unintentionally. I don’t really like it but just think about it, why should I be frustrated/angry when they point out? What’s make me
frustrated/angry? LACK OF CONFIDENCE!
A person who lacks confidence/knowledge will frustrated when
people point out their flaws. This is what I suppose! And just think about it, I
am exactly that person last time and I am being more open minded when I am
getting older. Right now! At the age of 30+ (with the pandemic), I am kinda
release and realized how dumbass I am back then (I mean 2 or 3 years back – the
darkest years of my life up to now). I just ruined everything with my
frustration and anxious. My dumbass mind just thinks of blaming others for pointing
out my flaws, my bad my stupidity. I am that frustrated person who really in
angry mode all the time and tend to lock myself in darkness!
All thanks to this pandemic, I gained some self-acknowledgement
on my thinking and I would not get frustrated or sad when others having fun or
happiness. This is a good thing that at least I gained some self-realization
during this scary pandemic. People just don’t point out something that is unnecessarily,
and you know you can’t see your own flaws without anyone pointing out. You are
weak on something and you shall enhance it without frustration/angry. You shall
do something if you are not good enough and not blaming other not giving you
any good resources.
You ruined something you amend it but if you can’t amend it,
just let it go without looking back. When you regret and just think of what the
root cause of it. You got no blame on others with your own wrong and keep
moving forward to gain other thing that you have not discover.
每个人的一生中,
都有后悔的时刻,
但无论如何我们都无法使时光倒流。
就接受呗!
Thanks to all the people appeared in my life and sorry if I have
no contacted most of them but you all meant something in my life up until now.
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
And Sorry if I have offended most of you in your past. 😊
PS: Nothing to do with any story in your mind, is just a thought
for today. It is kinda dark post but believe me, this is the brightest post I’ve
written throughout these few years. I am totally in my brightest mood while
writing this! I love to read back what I have written in the future.
PSS: Sunny day for a blog post
PSSS: 10.10 is around the corner, please spend as much as
you want during this time ok? HAHAHAHAHA #auntylifeforever
Alright, spent 15 minutes to write down thought was the best
ever! Still, I do not know the name of the song ☹
**no read-proof, sorry if a lot of grammar mistake you have notice**
Thursday, June 3, 2021
Back to the beginning
Hello everyone!
I bet some of you have been suffering on losing job again and again throughout the year, especially we were in FMCO - Force MCO (Changed name like nobody) now. Honestly, I already too used to lockdown in Malaysia.
I kinda frustrated when things are not properly plan when come to all these lockdown situation. I feel there is always people complaining when come to lockdown and I believe we also need to do our part in order to make it effective. I have read a lot of news and some really quite pissed me, especially those employee who force to go to office even though they are not the essential company. Why they simply just let their employees suffer? I know from employer point of view is that they need to monitor their employees there and then, and some claimed that WFH really not working for them due to people not going to work at home. But honestly if you don't trust your employees, why you hire them?
And I know most of my friend quite good in WFH situation and love it instantly because firstly we don't need to stuck in the jam to go to work, save time and more sleeping time. Secondly, we have more free time as in more time to complete our work as well. Honestly, I am not 100% focus on work during my wfh time BUT I'll make sure my job done before I even have a free time. And serious speaking, don't you feel guilty if you don't even completed your job before you are having fun?
Logically, people will feel guilty about it unless you are that kind of person who really don't like you job and don't give a shit on it. Then, that's fine, you win! What I am trying to say is please trust your employee, because they really did work at home and not taking their own sweet time when there is a deadline, please!
I sound like an aunty nagging all the time but I heard too much ridiculous way of handling employees during wfh. One of the most ridiculous way is that boss will spot check their employees by having a sudden call, meaning their employee must be 24/7 on their laptop, even toilet break WTH!!!!??
Are you freaking kidding me?
What if I got sudden stomachache? What if I already want to pangsai and still need to take my laptop to the toilet while I poo? You better be the same as what I did if you asked me to do so. Very funny huh!
So yup, nagging like a mom! Please trust your employee!
KTHXBYE! LOLOL
Wednesday, March 24, 2021
Recap of 2020
3. Gained more knowledge
I read a lot during lockdown and, trust me you will gain more knowledge on your mindset. I've been reading even before mco, but somehow, I picked up more during the so-called free time of mine.
4. Exercise regularly
Exercise wasn’t my thing until mco. I literally will feel faint after running in a treadmill or outside of the park, so cardio exercise was a no for me all the time until I pick it up in 2020. I can feel I gained more stamina and I can literally do a 30 mins intensive cardio without feeling fainted. Great job but it also causes me to have some health problem lah. that’s another thing to say about it.
5. Self-care
I care more on myself than others. Self-care doesn’t mean you are selfish or what, but it helps you to build up more confidence. I do more plating on my meal, especially breakfast. I enjoyed every meal I had with movie, YouTube video or even drama. I used to simply have a meal and didn’t really enjoy much on it but this year I did it even for my breakfast. No rushing and enjoy.
Bad
1. Health condition
I have some hormone imbalance after intensive exercise (as what doctor prescribe) during mco so too much exercise also a no for our body and I learnt it. I am currently having medication for it and went through all the scanning weeks before. Pretty good still.
2. Social anxiety
I guess I will have some social anxiety after being at home for so long, but I tried to be active these days, for example hiking, yoga and etc to feel more activated. I’ve no seen friends for like ages and we used to joke around saying what if we are back to office and we can’t recognize everyone anymore LOLOL. To be honest, this wfh situation really make us feel apart and some of my colleague are leaving us soon sigh!
3. COVID-19
Ok! I shall put it as first but as you all know covid does impact our life a lot. Mask and sanitizer are a new norm. MCO, RMCO, CMCO wasn’t unfamiliar with everyone in the country. Even dining-out was a grateful thing for all of us. Grab and food panda were our friends same goes to Lazada and Shopee! They used to say it’s great that we lockdown so that we don’t spend much. Are you sure about it now? LOLOL
Throughout the year, I have gained more than losing it. Conclusion, 2020 wasn’t a bad year for me but I know it hurt most people especially those who losing their job because of this virus thing!
Hope 2021 will be a better year ahead.
Sunday, June 14, 2020
DEAR Blog| A month of your pass
Tuesday, June 9, 2020
Dear BLOG| Dad says
Me: *grumpy* Pa, very loud leh you put the mahjong.
Dad: En..
Momi: Ya lo, why so loud?
Then second round...
Dad: *pick a mahjong and throw it silently* heh! Need to put it slowly..slowly..
Me: HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
Momi: HAHAHHAHHAHAHAHAHA
Third round when my dad put it silently again...
Me and Momi: HAHHAAHHAAHAHA
Dad: *wondering* Why you keep laugh?
Me: Coz you are a joker!
Dad: You very happy hor!
Me: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
My dad really a hidden joker man!
Friday, May 22, 2020
Dear BLOG| 7th day of Nicky Passed
Past few days was quite a struggle one, not mentally (I'm accepting the fact that he left) but physically because the iguana out there kept dig out his grave. I'm angry but at the same time think this is the circle of life, maybe. We built up a stone grave now and no more digging happen anymore. I'm grateful for that.
After his passed, Lucky (another dog of mine) seems a bit abnormal or I would say manja. She will knock the door (literally use her hand to knock the door ok!) and ask to come in the house. It probably also due to fire crackers as well as thunder storm out there, but she just different in her way of sleeping. Momi said she miss him, did she? She not used to loving Nicky anyway, but I think she somehow miss his accompany and annoyances.
We miss you, boy!
Hope you come back and visit us and I know you always can't recognise the route back home but please let us know when you come back ok?
I miss you and wanted to dream of you one more time. Please be careful when you walk on the street because it's raining now. Be safe and be a happy angel in the heaven.
Miss you.
xoxo
Your sis, Lydia